Domestic violence is a silent epidemic in South Africa, affecting millions of women, men, and children across the country. It is more than just physical abuse—it includes emotional, financial, and psychological abuse, leaving deep and lasting scars.
The Reality of Domestic Violence in South Africa
South Africa has one of the highest rates of gender-based violence (GBV) in the world. The statistics are staggering:
- 1 in 3 women will experience some form of domestic violence in their lifetime.
- Every four hours, a woman is murdered—most often by someone she knows.
- Over 120,000 protection orders are issued annually in South Africa, yet many cases go unreported due to fear, stigma, or lack of faith in the justice system.
- More than 50% of children in South Africa have experienced or witnessed domestic violence, contributing to a cycle of trauma and abuse.
Domestic violence doesn’t discriminate. It affects people of all ages, races, and socioeconomic backgrounds. While women and children are the most vulnerable, men can also be victims.
Understanding Domestic Violence
Domestic violence encompasses a range of abusive behaviours, including:
- Physical abuse – Assault, hitting, pushing, or any form of physical harm.
- Sexual abuse – Forced sexual acts, including marital rape.
- Emotional and psychological abuse – Verbal insults, threats, manipulation, and humiliation.
- Economic abuse – Controlling finances, restricting access to money, or selling household property without consent.
- Intimidation and harassment – Stalking, excessive phone calls, or sending threatening messages.
- Property damage – Destroying a victim’s belongings or home.
- Trespassing – Entering a victim’s home without consent.
The Impact on Families and Communities
Domestic violence doesn’t just harm the victim—it destroys families and communities. Children who grow up witnessing abuse are more likely to experience trauma, anxiety, and behavioural problems. Many go on to become victims or abusers themselves, continuing the cycle of violence into the next generation.
For victims, the consequences can be life-altering: broken self-esteem, loss of independence, and in too many cases, loss of life. The fear of retaliation keeps many trapped in abusive relationships, feeling like there’s no way out.
Breaking the Cycle: What Can You Do?
- Speak up – If you or someone you know is experiencing domestic violence, don’t stay silent.
- Know your rights – The South African government has laws in place to protect victims, including the Domestic Violence Act.
- Seek legal help – Shapiro & Haasbroek Inc is here to assist you in obtaining protection orders and taking legal action against abusers.
- Get support – There are shelters, support groups, and organisations ready to assist.
How to Apply for a Protection Order
Victims of domestic violence can apply for a protection order at a Magistrate’s Court in the area where they live, work, or where the abuse occurred. The process includes:
- Completing an application form at the court.
- Submitting an affidavit detailing the abuse.
- Attending a court hearing where a magistrate will determine whether to issue an interim or final protection order.
- If a protection order is violated, the abuser can be arrested immediately.
You Are Not Alone – Help Is Available
If you or someone you know is in danger, call the National GBV Hotline: 0800 428 428 or send a Please Call Me to 1207867#.
At Shapiro & Haasbroek Inc., we believe in justice, safety, and protection for all victims of domestic violence. If you need legal assistance in obtaining a protection order or understanding your rights, we are here to help.
Together, we can break the silence, support survivors, and build a future free from domestic violence. Share this message—it could save a life.
